HAYVN Sandwich Generation

HAYVN Sandwich Generation support group at HAYVN in Darien CT, Fairfield County

Join others who are balancing their own lives while caring for elderly family members.

Free events at HAYVN from 5:30-7:00pm, in partnership with HAYVN and LifeCare Concierge. Share the joys and challenges of being in this stage of life.

Sandwich Generation Event Series

As our parents age, having challenging conversations about their care needs becomes increasingly important. Join us as we discuss various topics and hear from experts.

Netaa Levy

Netta Levy

Jennifer Matus

Jennifer Matus

Wednesday, October 7, 2026, 5:30-7:00pm

Knowing When It’s Time: How to Recognize the Signs Your Parent Needs Help and Start the Conversation Before Crisis Hits

In partnership with HAYVN and presented by LifeCare Concierge

SPEAKERS:

ABOUT TOPIC

The hardest part of caregiving is often the beginning — recognizing that a parent needs more help, and figuring out how to bring it up without triggering resistance or damaging the relationship. In this candid conversation, Netta Levy, an elder care advisor, and Jennifer Matus, a home care specialist, will walk through the warning signs families often miss, practical strategies for navigating a resistant parent, and how to take those first steps toward getting the right support in place, before a crisis forces your hand.

Netaa Levy

Netta Levy

Neil P. Phillips

Neil P. Phillips

Wednesday, October 21, 2026, 5:30-7:00pm

Planning Ahead: The Financial and Legal Side of Caring for Aging Parents

In partnership with HAYVN and presented by LifeCare Concierge

SPEAKERS:

ABOUT TOPIC

Most families don’t think about the financial and legal side of caregiving until they’re already in the middle of it — and by then, options are limited. In this honest conversation, Netta Levy, an elder care advisor, and Neil Phillips, an elder care attorney, will break down what documents and plans need to be in place now, what long-term care actually costs and how families typically pay for it, and how to have these conversations with aging parents while there’s still time to plan wisely.

5 Reasons to Attend

  • Education – When elder care responsibilities come on, they can be sudden and overwhelming. We provide information and education to help you prepare.
  • Objective Experts – Objective experts in the Aging Adult industry share their knowledge and experience with you
  • Support – Get support from others in the Sandwich Generation who may be going through similar situations
  • Curated Information – Access curated information on relevant topics to help with information overload
  • Free Meetings – Meetings are free of charge and geared to adults caring for an elderly parent, relative or friend

Admission is Free

Join us as we learn about different topics at HAYVN from 5:30-7:00pm.

Meeting topics will include:

  • October 7, 2026 – Knowing When It’s Time: How to Recognize the Signs Your Parent Needs Help and Start the Conversation Before Crisis Hits. SIGN UP
  • October 21, 2026 – Planning Ahead: The Financial and Legal Side of Caring for Aging Parents. SIGN UP

Recommended Reading and Resources

Supplemental reading to consider is the book “How to Care for Aging Parents by Virginia Morris. This is a one-stop resource for all of your medical, financial, housing and emotional issues.

Please also view curated information and resources for the Sandwich Generation Group.

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